Tuesday, January 22, 2008

To Protect and to Serve.

God has blessed us in so many ways. This seems a vast understatement to me. First let me tell you that today was really hard. It has been a good day but there is still some unfinished business that we have to deal with tomorrow.

 

I slept like not at all last night, my spoiled Florida lungs and sinuses are having one devil of a time with the smoke which is a part of the culture and which is every place. You can buy a pack of cigarettes here for 3 hryvna for any one who feels like doing the math $5 USD is 25 Hryvna any one who doesn�t let me put it this way, it is dirt cheap and almost every one here has this habit including many of the children from the orphanages because it is cheap and it is cultural. It is also an interesting statement about the economy as you can ride the bus here for that or just a little less depending on where you are going. Bottom line is please pray for our lungs and throats which have been quite officially indoctrinated into the second hand realm.

 

We got ready to go to our meeting at the SDA. Lori took us to meet G at the Golden Gate (* Historical note it was the old gate to the city of Kiev which was the original capital of Russia before it was moved to St. Petersburg and then to Moscow) and we trucked after G to the SDA which is located slam next door to St. Andrews at the top of the big hill where tourists get most of their shopping in. We did no shopping. We did go with G into the SDA and we stood there waiting for our appointment with the psychologist. She was a very nice lady, asked us virtually nothing, and had A. &  M�s folders waiting for us to confirm these are the children that we want. We got to ask NOTHING about them and why they are there� and furthermore here is where it got tricky. Seems the fact that I mentioned Z in our note about adoption was not really enough to get them to see that we are serious about him in an official way. As for the boys here, they too were not a part of the files waiting. It was suggested that we need to speak to the Vice Director regarding our �interesting situation with adoption of five children.� In order so to do, we needed to speak to some one who could get us an appointment with her. G.  took us back down the steps to this tiny �underground room� where a very nice lady was willing to look at our situation and listen to us. She was interested in our book which was �glasnah� ( Jenn phonetic for cool in Russian)  but you could see she like every one else was in shock at the number of kids we are attempting to adopt. She knew and recognized kids from the boys orphanage and commented on Jessica West who was sitting next to Randy Hall in one of the pics in our book. We tried to make sure that it was clear we do have family in Bham who have adopted kids and we are a part of that ministry not just �out there� with no other adoptive parental support or support from other adoptees. At any rate the woman was a total God send and she was going to get us an appointment with the Vice Director when in walked the Vice Director�s secretary. She explained that we needed help and followed the woman back to her office. When she returned we have an appointment for tomorrow at 3:45pm. to go back and �resolve our issues.�  Another huge issue is that it is being said now by the folk down yonder that Z. is not registered. More on that stateside now is neither the time nor place. So tomorrow we will find out if they are going to allow us to receive referrals to officially visit the kids. For now, we have only permission to adopt A&M. G. seems to think that we have a good chance of petitioning to adopt the others based on our time spent with them, but is not as certain of Z�s situation. This is not popular at all with us as you can well imagine. Please keep praying for him and for us and each child specifically. So 8/9 your times please be praying again tomorrow.

 

We are concerned but not yet shaken. So we know your prayers are with us and we can�t tell you how much that means to us. Your prayers have brought us this far and have yielded two of five children that we seek to bring home to protect and to serve. We know He is bigger than any person who might interfere with this adoption. I think there is one key player who shall remain nameless who is into this up to her eyes and she is the one I ask you to pray down into doing things selflessly so that the kids might have a home with us verses the orphanage life and existence there after. With what we know of our kids and the limited history of their being at the orphanage it does not jive with me that Z is not registered.  Me thinks she doth protest to much� ya�ll from up the road hear that loud and clear.  & if you are much of a card shark I know a game that I think she is playing and I�m ready to call her on it.

 

We left the SDA with G. and he took us to this very nice place to rest and get tea and Veryinki (Jenn phonetic for Perogi�s which is also phonetic and no I do not care at this point one iota about spelling nor do I wish for a language lesson). G. came back we paid the tab and hoofed it back up a hill to the SDA for him to deliver some papers and ask about the meeting time again. Then on cue our angel Lori called and we arranged for us to go back with G to the metro on the blue line and meet Lori to pick up the green line home. Now this was to transpire about 5:30 which in any city is traffic time. In this case it meant once again I got to play bowling for Ukrainians and there were way more pins to try not to knock over this time. A polite but insistent young man kept saying to me �Lady, move� which of course I was fogged out and boxed in and had no idea he was speaking to me, Mark says �Jenn� and nods at the man, he tries to speak to me again but I got the point he wanted past me (good luck jack, this was sardine time and I was stuck). I did recognize that he asked if I was British (interesting) and told him politely and quietly �neyt American.� Thus ending our conversation with a deep sigh and an sympathetic �oh so that is why you are an idiot and have no idea how to ride this thing or what the unwritten metro rules are.�

 

We are now back at the flat. Thank you Jesus�

 

Thank you for two of five being available and for permission to pursue them.

Thank you for grace to plead our case at all much less tomorrow.

Thank you for Lori Jackson, Denis, Oksana, and Olya for their love for us and hospitality.

Thank you for G. and his good work today and for his willingness to help us at all.

Thank you for friends and family who pray with and for us even still.

Thank you for dirt cheap if smelly public transportation.

Thank you for Magdych who is going to get us a cell phone tomorrow.

Thank you for Lori�s teacher having food poisoning on Friday of last week so that her class was canceled and she could get us around. (she is doing better btw)

Thank you for the fact that Lori doesn�t have class on Weds. so in fact she can tote our buns back up to St. Andrews where the SDA is tomorrow. We could if we had to do this solo, but you know guys, God has just really given us a gem in Lori and we do not have to ask hey dude can you she just is like �ok so tomorrow I will� She has said �I�ll be as involved as you want me to be.� And we are like come on sister the more the merrier on this adventure. Lori and the Family here are the protect and serve people for us. Seriously it is really tremendous blessing to not �go back to the flat at night� but to �go home.� And have people to hash this out with.

 

Thank you for my Awesome Husband who has been so great through each step of this journey� and who has been an anchor for me and not just on the metro!

 

So thank you God. & Oh please God, do not let this turn out badly for the other kids. Please back the strongholds down that are in place trying to keep Z esp. from being in the family.

 

Here is the next skinny� IF all goes well and we are referred to the other kids tomorrow, G. can get papers picked up by 5pm on Thurs. IF he gets the papers early there is a chance he can submit up here papers to the courts on Fri. they only take them Weds. and Fri. So we really want to get the papers and get them to the inspectors who have to sign etc. so we can try to turn them in on Fri. It is lofty at this point but attainable if it is His plan. If not we wait till next Weds. to hear if / when what ever judge wants to meet with us at their pleasure. It is a rotation so as Forest would say, �Life is like a box of chocolates you never know what you are going to get.� In this case whom. BTW Dad G. thinks the wood work you do is amazing. He likes it a lot.

 

If   WHEN he gets papers we may get to spring the boys this weekend which would go a long way in our moral after today�s adventure. We need to be with our kids� and we want to be with all of them. To the Bham lil sister chicks check the blog we will get our cell phone # soon and you can call and talk to the other kids when we are there. They miss you too and we listened to many a �tell her hi for me� when they were talking about each of you. So far they knew not to ask for our phones but I know that time is coming!

 

Big love to each of you.

 

Jenn for the Smiths.

 

 

 

 

  

11 comments:

Church Family said...

Thank you for allowing us to be in this intense time with you....
just think Veggie Tales....God is bigger than...
Love you SO MUCH!
spears

Church Family said...

Thank you God for Jenn
Thank you God for her family
Thank you God for her patient understanding
Thank you God for her husband
Thank you God for Lori
Thank you God for comforting her when she doesn't feel very patient or understanding
Thank you God for knowing her future
Thank you God for Jenn

Church Family said...

ALL of you are in our prayers and thoughts...We love you and miss you.

The Tuckers

KB said...

Hey it is katelyn!!! (from summer 06.) Just one of the little sistas from bham! =) I just wanted to let you know that i am praying for you guys every step of this journey! tell all of the kids i said hello especially at 21 and Zap. I am sure that getting to see some of your kids and spending time with them has just been a blast! I am praying for you guys as well as the kids that i know will be very happy to see you! Love you!!!

Poka!

marla said...

What a journey! I am praying for all of you. Thank you again for sharing so much. I miss you and think of you all the time. Love, Mom

The Bones said...

Sarah and I went to visit Roll-E and Poll-E at the Resort of Roof and Roll-E slipped us this note to you 2:

Mama and Papa, don't worry about us we are doing fine, the fake Chris Farley and wild littte girl just drove up so I gotta write fast. While we do miss you we are literally freaking out thinking this small wait will result in more faces to kiss. Poll-E had a small nightmare last night and was sore afraid and she woke up and shouted "What if there are too many faces to lick!!!" And every K-9 in the Red Roof lost it. I called Poll-E down and explained "The amount of kisses you make are equal to the amount you need, so as the number of faces increase your body naturally increases the kiss capacity automatically. So after all the laughter of the other tenants and we all calmed down. And I just layed there with a smile thinking how great that God the humans speak of must be to take care of us here, to take care of you 2 there and our 5 new kissy faces and all the rest.... I mean really not enough kisses, that Poll-E!!! LOL

So we will aung out with the Bones for a few, but just between us,,, we will be ok with them leaving because it is soon our time to go out and while we will try to act as though we werent that happy being there I think they will figure it out we are ecstatic with the accomadations, I mean,,, treats (beef jerky treats!), our own chair!, plenty of food, water, treats (Poll-E says I already mentioned treats but as our short term memory is only 3 seconds I am not so sure) oh yeah frequent outside trips, lots of other doggy talk and many visitors. So while it is not home just know we are fine and cannot wait to test the face lick ratio on all those faces. Ok gotta go there bringing the Bones in, wow what happened to this guys head, hmmm is that his lick spot, OK Poll-E let's take in plenty of water we are gonna need it with these two crazy's.
Love Yall, Roll-E and Poll-E

The Bones said...

Hey Mark and Jenn, this is George and Frazier, cats of the Bone family and we want to rap you a lilttle diddy:

Title: From Russia with 007

Hit it!

Peace love and Hope yall,
Praying in Kiev for a big hall,
God fills the soul with love,
and sets it on fire with his dove,
From Russia with love,
it's not just a movie yall,
Its the real world for mark and jenn YALL,
a new life to begin,
they have gone in, but we gotta pray yall,
Pray, From Russia with 007, we are reaching up into heaven, let us not be unleven, reach us, teach us, help us get From Russia with 007,
James Bond cannot help us but You can bring us lord From Russia with double oh 7.
Everybody stop, get on your knees, look up into heaven and ask our KING to bring us, From Russia with 007.
We love you, we praise you, we need you, we are nothing without you, without you we are a big fat ZERO But with you we can get FROM RUSSIA WITH DOUBLE OH 7!
yeah, yeah
WORD

The Bones said...

Ok here's the deal. we will refrain from chewing up our family's possessions if we can get a long weekend at the Roof where Roll-E and Poll-E are staying. IF NOT, we both feel confident we can eat bricks.... these are our demands:

1. A dump truck full of those little jerky treats.
2. Stop the cats from taunting us through the window and that stupid rapping they do!
3. Build us a circular track with a self-driven car so we can chase it at our leisure.
4. Raymond needs something for gas! Please here me on this one!
5. When we catch a fly in mid air we expect more than an "Oh that's gross!" from you. How about the occasional high five?
6. About all those faces Roll-E and Poll-E mentions, if they run out of licks please let them know we stand ready to be tagged in!!!
7. Please, and this is the most important one, DO NOT GET MAD AT US for breaking into the house and sending this blog comment and by the way we are a little ticked that those arrogant cats get not one but 3 porcelin bowls to drink out of......
Comply or we eat mortar!
Love your loving and wonderful pups. Lucy and Raymond.
PS - If our demands are met with the request for us to stop running at the horses the deal is OFF!

The Bones said...

Hello, hello, can you here us, "River stop, wait" "Just sit on that chair and a half" "ouch I hit my head on that twirling thing in the ceiling" "Kota sit down your gonna break something"
OK OUT THERE IN BLOG LAND HERE THIS:

The loving Bone pups are planning to eat through your home. "Stop it, wait I got my tail stop in the cold box" "River!, thats a frig er ater and that is not for horses,,, ok wait is this carrots, oh my and lettuce....."

We will get back to you ahhhh we need to ahhhh rest

"Kota see if Oprah's on, i love to hear how bad those humans have it... it kills me"

The Bones said...

Look we do not want to be tattle tails but THE DOGS AND HORSES ARE IN THE HOUSE!!!!

THE TV IS BLARRING AND THERE ARE VEGATABLES EVERYWHERE AND THE STUPID DOGS ARE DRINKING OUT OF THE TOILET AND EATING SHOES.

We have packed and overnight bag and nabbed a credit card. Catch you guys later.

The Bones said...

I have one mad tabby cat. Peaches. I used my old cat's name to refer to him (George). I am making a public apology to Peaches.

Miss you George...